Your sitch is such a dose of reality to me. The length of the problems related to the D and the not owning of it and the toy tossing and you having to figure out ways to work around it going on so long is a little shocking to me. I continue to hope you might one day get acknowledgment from H when his employment situation gets better because then he will feel better about himself all around.
Good job on not letting him act like he's doing you a favor when a M should be a two-way street.
I'm glad his actions are still positive and affectionate some despite all the stress going on. Try to get a break from having to keep a happy face for everyone at work and home. Some alone fun time maybe.
