I would advice you stick to the newcommers forum. You'll get a lot more responses there. If you H ends up having an A, you can post in the infedility one where mine is now. Those 2 get the most action.
Newcomers is the most popular and MLC is 2nd...unless things have changed, Infidelity is a distant 3rd. MLC almost always includes infidelity and thus it is a major issue on the forum.
