i met with my L yesterday. the news is not good...for my H. she made some suggestions and advised me to move forward on a few financial issues that are going to cause BIG problems for my H, especially since he quit his job recently and has minimal income.
long story short, it comes down to 2 main issues: the motorcycle (which we purchased solely in my name but is in his possession) and some debt we incurred will need to be transferred over to my H's name. which for him will most likely mean selling the bike and moving in with some family members, or asking them to borrow the money and then paying them back, instead of paying me small amounts each month for the next 2 years. it all makes sense to me in the "it's what is best for me moving forward" sense, but at the same time, i know he will not react well since we verbally agreed to another arrangement.
he already emailed me back and sounded pretty bitter and now he wants me to call him. i have a feeling this is NOT going to be a good day and that things are going to get messy, very quickly.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
