I would suggest you read www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com.Rollercoaster rider maintains the site.I was cycnical about the whole MLC piece but after seeing my H turn into a monster overnight and reading this site.It is very real for me.

That said its not the debate Pass needs.Her H is pissing all over her and thats got to stop.It is totally unacceptable.As for the A lets not go their or I will start spitting venom..its the lowest of the low.Pass you deserve better..you do.I am so glad you are going to invest in getting you back on track.
This will draw the kids and keep them close to you..their dad certainly isnt role modelling the right behaviour.


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith