CH, Are you alright? I can imagine you are very angry, upset, discouraged, and maybe even questioning yourself. Please take a step back and breath before you do anything. You may have to apologize for some things you may have said last night (I know I would have). But don't do that now. Just sit quietly and know that you are not alone. It hurts like heck to be betrayed like you have but there is a reason for what is happening. You will come out of this on the other end a better man if you decide to let God work in your life.
Eventually you will have to work through the legal aspects of a D. That day is not today. Today is the day you start to look deep into yourself and find the lesson to be learned.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09