Oh, and I agree with Bwhorl and Onthemountaintop ... don't be naive and bury your head in the sand, but if there are no signs of an EA then trust your instincts. Don't focus so much on it that it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Your job is you. DBing only works if you not only read it, but "get" it. Focus on you, it's not easy, but I'm learning it gets easier everyday.

Hang in there...

Last edited by PEImom_of_3; 04/19/10 01:41 PM.

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc