When it gets to the point where you are tired of this routine, you will tell her that since she has made the decision to move out and live away from you and hasn't shown that she wants to come back and hasn't asked to come back, it's time to legally separate and divorce and time for you to move on with you life whatever that includes.
Lead. Lead your life, lead your marriage and lead your family. Let your wife off the hook from making a choice. You decide for yourself and take action. Call her hand - she's either in or out. She wants you to lead. If she has to choose guess what it will be?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
