Nah, he's not driving with the kids while drinking. Only himself. I would NEVER allow that. And he doesn't drink at work. He has called in to work once, though. His mother has cut him off - he brought his own bottle last time b/c she told him there was no booze for him there. Not much I can do about the drinking, other than pray there will be no accidents. When I bring it up, he just runs away from me.