Damn! After I spend an hour dissecting this and going on and on ad nauseam, SDFoundGirl ABSOLUTELY NAILS it succinctly.Bravo
SD put in print what i was thinking as I read it! He is pissed that you don't completely agree to what he has proposed. He is the typical manipulative WAS.....how dare you not agree to his proposal, there must be something wrong with you. My X had similair reactions (he was also a controlling SOB, but not quite as evil as Bunny's). In the end, he backed down on going to court, and HIS lawyer chased my lawyer and I out of the settlement conference assuring us that X would sign the agreement right then, because they knew they didn't have a leg to stand on in court. My X did all the mental manipulation "it's between us, don't let others influence you WE (meaning HE) know what's best for us" crap that yours is doing Bunny. I listened to my lawyer and stood firm in asking for what I was slegally entitled to, nothing more, nothing less. Be strong and don't respond!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
