Interesting that I also have negative feelings towards some of XW's family members. Feelings of betrayal? Perhaps....perhaps I just was not too fond of them prior to the bomb. We can try to dissect all we want but blood is thick. So....you did very well to stick around for your kids....I would have been out of there (maybe left the kids to play with their cousins). You are alos doing well to stay out of this...it is a no win. How can anybody on this site side with a WAW? Keep your distance and concentrate on VS and the horizontal tango!