Yeah, time to start monitoring. I don't know any cops other than one in a town adjacent to us, but our neighbor across the street works part time in dispatch. Maybe she can help.
H was drinking during his EA back between 2003-2005. He said on a thread that he was "drinking like a fish" but I didn't notice it then. I knew we were going out and drinking at clubs. (he never went clubbing before but started during this time, and I went with him as a way to stay in the mix) However, he was drinking and having a "good time" when out with friends... now he drinks ALWAYS. When at home alone, out with friends, visiting my mom or his mom, he is always with a bottle and always DRUNK - to the point that he can't tie his shoes. It's much more and more dangerous than it was back then, for sure.
I have met OW twice and both times she was drunk. She didn't sound drunk when I spoke to her on the phone, but her FB is full of pics of her out drinking with people, and I know from emails that she frequents the higher end drinking establishments (micro brewery type places) so much that they know her name. She's a member of a mug club at one where you have to drink so much in a week and get a mug that they hang on to for you... so that should give you an idea of the amount of drinking she does.
