Wild- sorry its been a while...taking a break from here can be a good thing...

I found that spending a lot of time writing about my sitch and reading all the other sitches could be overwhelming at times.

Eric gives great advice- esp about being whole...it is possible, and remember, you are doing the work and dealing...W is not.

You are going to be in a better place, believe me...

As for the detaching- it can be done, and when done correctly- W will notice- not that that's your goal, but still something that will happen as well.

Hang in there...BTW- you have the energy to work out, that's AWESOME! A huge plus and def something to continue doing...

Action precedes motivation...remember that

DARK