Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

sorry for late response but... HI ABBEY!! So great to hear from you and seeing you have been piecing. I remember you stopped posting after your H came back and I wondered how things had turned out, so I'm so happy for you that you guys are still together! Hope its going well? Hi Michelle too.

I've been 'funny' since I saw Helen last week. Its not her fault, I guess it just bought up some latent resentments. He did lead me up the garden path all that summer and then dumped me effectively a 2nd time when he decided to start dating her, so in my mind (although probs not in reality).. it felt like he made a stark choice at that point, HER over me. He says not, he doesnt know what he was thinking/doing and was just "insane". He even asked me last night if I was having 2nd thoughts (about getting M)... I guess I was. Not because I think he will do it again, just part of me feels a bit of a sap for waiting for him whilst he was dating someone else. It will pass, its been a funny few weeks for many of my friends and in the world... the volcano ash is an example of how wierd life can be at times!!
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