Looks at OfficerInNeed post. He has a list of 20 bullet items to be handled. There is no focus on handling old arguments, but rather addressing the issues today:
Like:
1. Sleep in the same bed 2. Wife wears wedding ring 3. Regular sex life and intimacy 4. Cold attitude gone and working together on most issues 5. Delegated responsibilities 6. Better communication 7. Better management of anger 8. Rules on discussion of sensitive issues (IE: don't discuss in front of kids ) 9. Attend Retrauville and sessions 10. Several dates per month 11. Wife also initiates intimacy and sex life
Something like that. I have about 30 issues that I could address in my sitch and I'd be a pretty happy camper.
