I never really told her that I would be sleeping in the other room. I just said that we could stay in separate rooms.
We have a ways to go, but I feel that when we do end up in the house together it won't be in separate rooms. Right now she's afraid that MC will cause too much tension between us, so she's afraid to be in the house together after a session.
We both agreed that digging up the past won't help with MC, and we need solution oriented to help us move forward. She's still confused with all that's going on, not just R. However, things appear more positive than gloom like before.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept