I've detached somewhat, but the sitch keeps requiring my W and I to be together, at least in some situations. We had to hire an attorney to represent us in a lawsuit with the biz. Attorney mentioned our situation complicates him representing us with an impending D, and if it got adversarial (isn't that part of a D?) he could not represent both of us.
This Thursday we have a mediation hearing to discuss financial settlements. I don't see how this can not further complicate the matter. I guess it could simplify it in shaking out if we are really working on a D, or on a marriage?
Last week my wife got a cell message threatening to kill her. No name, with an intentional garble. A few days later she finds out a former fellow employee has been visiting her house looking for her for weeks. Since then he has left a few notes and was waiting for her at work one morning. Her explanation was she loaned him $ and she had to pressure him to repay it, and she transfered to where he wanted to go, now he's pissed.
She called the cops and reported it, and is considering filing for an order of protection (she's become an expert on this). I read one of the notes in which he asked her what was going on, that he didn't understand it.
I'm at a crossroads this week. How she handles the mediation will tell me alot. I am also at the point to pursue this stalker/BF sitch as I don't feel I'm getting the straight scoop. This would be incident #7 and I told her one more of these and it's a deal killer for me (mlc or not).
One more complication, but maybe the one that helps focus me?
