No, not long. I took out my sig a while ago. D was final in August. I did end up in a R pretty fast. No denial there. Actually met her very fast, but worked out great for me. Hers, OM. I am going for some legal here soon, probably this week. Mainly just to set some parameters on things to leave no questions on visitation and drop offs for children. Want some concrete establishments to settle kids minds and hopefully stop some of the upsets they seem to be sufferring.