Well, have not made a new post for me in quite some time, so here it is. Not a whole lot to report. Just needing to vent. XW is getting married soon. Not new, have known for some time and believe I have stated so. D is 6 months old. Still in a great relationship myself. GF is amazing. Finally made an outstanding statement putting my foot down with XW as far setting a concrete schedule with children. We did a "do it yourself" D kit, and now wishing that was not the case. Worked good for the time being, but not enough concrete areas when kids are involved. Leaves too much up in the air. Definitely saved some money in the whole process, but I am not sure it was best in establishing boundaries when kids are involved. I guess I have allowed XW to control everything way too much, and did not really get it till I let myself look at things from the outside. Doing good now.
