I disagree. I don't think you should discuss post divorce. To me, no relationship discussion. Your M is finished. Done. Sorry. Okay? Next? You start over. Can the two of you be together? Absolutely! But this in now a brand new relationship. You are on a new beginning. Do you discuss this? Absolutely! But I believe if you are to discuss this now, it could still be considered as pursuing to XW. You can discuss it after the D is done, unless XW wants to discuss it. Then in may be an open case, not up to you to bring up. Just my 2 cents. Hope it helps.
