You get outside of your environment and in the gym, and stay off that phone I bet your anger and stress subsides in a couple of weeks. You will see the world differently.
Take care of yourself dude, you spent alot of time doing what you could with the wife and things where getting worse. Its not your fault, situation just messed up.
On the police sitch... Some things we do out of principle, because you feel worse if you didn't do anything about it. So you may not win, but you have to do something. Its up to you.