DG (((hugs))) Your H seems to be "cycling". I know how hard it is to keep detached when one day you see a glimpse of the "old him" and the next he is a "heartless stranger".

Remember he is going through his own hell and he may be more confused then you'd ever think. So as they say on this board "Don't believe anything they do and half of what they say"

You are doing all that you can do...Taking care of you and the kids.

Hang in there

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO