Translation of STBXH's email:

Dear Bunny,

I am disappointed you didn't just roll over and do what I wanted you to do. Because you're listening to other people and forming your own opinion, I stand to suffer some consequences of my actions, both personally and financially. I am, of course, speaking in a reasonable tone to gaslight you and make you think you're the crazy one. Please meet with me personally so I can manipulate you into a settlement which is not in your interest and not what you are entitled to after years of marriage and abuse.

I have a lot to lose. Remember, it's all about me.

Sincerely,

H

Bunny's reply:

Dear H,

I see that your head is still firmly stuck up your rectum, so I suppose it's difficult to see things clearly at the moment. If you persist in trying to manipulate me or sway me from protecting myself and my interests, I will be happy to let the lawyers fight it out and charge the bill to you. I am sure that will be a better alternative to you than simply being a stand up guy and doing what's right. In fact, the world may end if you admit you're a supreme douchebag and take responsibility for your behavior, so perhaps going down this path *is* the best course of action.

You also did not mention what you found so egregious from my settlement; perhaps we would be able to negotiate better if you explained what you found to be unfair. But I'm certain the only thing of concern to you is that I did not roll over and do what you wanted me to. I apologize, as the side effect of leaving you was discovering I did, indeed, have a backbone and personal value.

Please direct all future communication to my lawyer, as it's clear we are at an impasse. In the meantime, I invite you to go f*** yourself, as it seems that is a pastime you are particularly fond of.

Regards,

Bunny

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How about that?

SD

Last edited by SDFoundGirl; 04/19/10 05:43 AM.

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!