[quote=tbart01] She's still pondering the idea of coming home and letting me stay in the spare room. Not sure if she'll give in to that one, but we'll see.[quote]
what the heck?! are you trying to bribe her to come back home by telling her that if she does, you'll move out of the master bedroom and stay in the guest room while she stays in the master bedroom?
Haven't you read anything on this forum?
You don't move out of the master bedroom, ever! If she wants to come back, she can sleep on the couch, she can sleep in the guest room, in fact, it's you who should be telling her, you're not sure you want her sleeping in the master bedroom yet, it doesn't feel right for you considering all that's happened and you would like to maintain things the way they are and since you just got home, it's best for you to stay in the master bedroom which is normal and familiar for you and it's what you want after being away from home for so long.
You have been warned, do not move out of the master bedroom if she offers to come back home. It's your bed. You aren't doing any favors to her by supplicating her WAW behavior. TB how long have you been on these forums and you still think like this?!
