OK thanks for that advice, Allen.

A question: I bought a couple of books - one is called "His Needs, Her Needs" and the other is called "The Case Against Divorce". What are your thoughts on whether or not I should try to share them with my wife at this point? Up until now, she has been quite resistant to anything like that, but I thought maybe since she seems to be trying to work on the marriage a bit, maybe I should try introducing stuff like that again.