Girlfriend are you serious? Don't even call OW a girlfriend... that way dignifies her status and sets you up for failure right away.
And I think these kids may be old enough to understand what infidelity is... a 15 year old can grasp that concept for sure.
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Pass, is this behaviour most since you exposed the affair or has this been goign on the whole time?
If it is new, he could be acting out as a way to (mis)manage withdrawal, so it really depends how new this all is.
Are these drinking buddies of his the same people you exposed to who said they would support this marriage?
Doesn't sound very supportive to me.
It's too bad you don't live in OfficerInNeed's city. You could get OfficerInNeed to pull your H over and threaten to charge him with drunk driving and take away his license... lol
Your Husband can't very easily cheat if he can't drive!
