Sounds positive. At least you guys have a line of communication open about the whole sitch.
My W and I had none. She only wanted to do what she wanted to do, beat on me in MC, and had no desire to work on anything. Your position appears to be good.
Don't drop your guard. Keep doing what you've been doing. Like you said, it's going to take time.
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