What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

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I'm irritated with how he pointed out all of our relationship flaws. Well, in reality, these were all faults, he thinks, of mine. So he is really still blaming me for being the reason why he left. (Seriously, you want to leave someone after 8 years suddenly because you didn't eat dinner together? Petty.)

+ Actually, I'm really irritated with the way he's portraying me in the marriage to his family. I could really go off on his neediness, baby-ness, never putting away his laundry ness, fear of intimacy, selfishness, anxiousness, etc.

Here's a topper- HE LEFT HIS PREGNANT WIFE.

nothing compares and his family knows it. Don't sweat it but we all beat ourselves up. So what- we have areas to improve. I acknowledged it, have been changing, and will be better for it for WH OR for the next relationship.