I know you've had a L review them, but have you asked your L about the implications of signing them? IMO your L should advise you on this. If it's not right for you to sign, then change your mind and tell him that your L has advised against it. Also, you are still in a fragile emotional state. Is it possible that your feelings about the D agreements might change as you grow stronger? I could see how that might happen.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.