believe me, guys, I would not turn to this guy for spiritual support--or any other kind. two years ago I asked this guy for help, and he essentially declined--yeah, no doubt xH had his own version of the story to tell. this time around, I didn't seek him out. I keep getting invitations to youth ministry events for D14, and I finally got irritable enough to reply to them that I had no intention of sending her to anything at that church because of the way they had thrown us to the wolves while supporting xH in his adultery. then he replied to me, as noted. and his note was just as appalling as how he handled things 2 years ago, and I think deserves a reply. but as for spiritual leadership or support--heck no.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012