compare the dimness and results you are getting to the previous way...
and don't forget he will test you to see if you are "serious" about this dimness and try to "get your goat!" anticipate!
keep going, H4L, your strength is inspiring!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004