I also hope that you can take some time off work. It seems like things are really piling on right now. The sooner you get the L stuff done, the sooner you can take action and it sounds like you're...done.
hugs!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.