How inconsiderate Gardener >:( . It's not enough to abandon you, but to not even stick to the D agreements is really lame.

I hope that as you grow stronger within yourself, her power to hurt you becomes less and less. I know you're working on it smile

Oh, and I'm in it-ended-after-17-years club too (together, not M).

Last edited by flowmom; 04/19/10 03:13 AM.

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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