What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[gatsby11]

Well, after processing, this is what I've realized:

+ Really, nothing's changed. He may be a little more open about the baby than he was a few weeks ago.

+ I'm grateful that his parents have fully heard my side and, I think, understand my points.

+ I'm irritated with how he pointed out all of our relationship flaws. Well, in reality, these were all faults, he thinks, of mine. So he is really still blaming me for being the reason why he left. (Seriously, you want to leave someone after 8 years suddenly because you didn't eat dinner together? Petty.)

+ Actually, I'm really irritated with the way he's portraying me in the marriage to his family. I could really go off on his neediness, baby-ness, never putting away his laundry-ness, fear of intimacy, selfishness, anxiousness, etc.

+ I'm tired of analyzing.

Yeah, NM, I think the crying just indicates his instability. Which is obvious. I think I did read into it more in the beginning, but now I see that it doesn't mean much. I guess I'm glad he's not callous. Thanks for letting me know your H did the same thing!

I should go. I'm rather irritable, as you can see. Grrr.