Well we had our conversation. We wen't down to the river and sat in the car and talked.

It went very well with both of us just talking and no one losing there cool. It was a very open and honest conversation.

She said she part of her wants to come home and put this behind her, while the other part still holds resentment. She's afraid that if she comes home now she'll go back into her shell. She doesn't trust me enough yet that I would not let her go into her shell.

We still have more talking to do over time, but progress is made each time we speak. This isn't going to get fixed over night, and I just need to give her time.

I told her that when she's ready t come home I won't be ready to not see my daughters everyday. She completely understood, and has been thinking about that. Not quite sure what she meant by that.

With all that has gone on with her and I, my D14 and juvy, and some things with her mom, she doesn't feel she can come home and be a good mom. She just needs a little time to gather herself.

She's still pondering the idea of coming home and letting me stay in the spare room. Not sure if she'll give in to that one, but we'll see.

It was a good talk, and we'll see what future talks hold for us. Also, there's still MC in our future.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept