S11 said H told him he's left because "we just can't get along", that he needs to sell house so that he can pay for somewhere for him to live as well as us. There's no way he can afford rent and utilities on two residences. He can't afford it on our house now. Told S11 that he's never coming home because he doesn't want to be around me. S11 too scared to respond to H's comments except to attempt to ask him to come home and try. H yelled at him that he couldn't.
We don't fight! He's an ass to everyone. That's why his family is scared to talk to him, his kids too, and he ran all of our friends off. I don't argue with him. I walk on eggshells, bite my tongue, and give him his way! How dare he tell our son that "we" can't get along!!! I get along with everyone. His own family has said there's a place in Heaven for me just for putting up with him. Everyone tells me that they know how hard I've tried and that he doesn't deserve me and has no clue what he's losing. How come I know this as truth yet still feel not good enough?