The one thing I agree with rr22 about is there is a large possibility that H will move on to another OW. EA's are so much harder because H is using the EA to cover up other emotions so until he deals with those he will probably do it again. I know from experience. If H does move on to a different OW, you need to file.
I would agree. I would say that starting another EA would be a clear sign that he has no interest in saving the relationship.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement