Yep, I'd be watching the kids while she's out of town. At this point I hope I still live here and things will be better. I probably can't go in July anyway due to my work schedule.. I'm channeling the hurt into working on myself. To loose my temper would be a major problem. Haven't had a chance to get into the book yet as I've been with my W and or kids all weekend. I think I'll work on it during the week at lunch and befor I get home. Thanks!