What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

Ok ladies- for me, when S was born, I wanted a family more than ever. When the 2 weeks of paternity leave were up and he moved out again, I was a wreck. I just was in disbelief and sad and miserable. Sorry. It was really hard. I seriously think if I had used my savings to hire someone or gotten a roommate or had someone there I would have been able to say F-you to WH and insist on the parenting plan (meaning he only comes over 2x per week for 3-4 hours each at that time in the baby's life- this is based on the parenting plan recommendations from our county- the family law section)

AND like I said, I had not discovered divorcebusting until he was 3 months old!

Gatsby, about your H crying. Yeah. Mine did too- I never saw him cry until I discovered the A. Then he cried a lot with the ultrasounds, shopping for S, baby tv commercials. And here is still with OW! NOW your H may be different so don't take my cynicism about crying to heart- it's just that I thought it meant something more and it obviously didn't!


And at the baby classes, there was one single mom who had her mom with her. I remember thinking that I could have done it by myself too.