Pass, I think your H was drunk with infidelity at the time, and mostly still is. This makes people do really humiliating things in public.
I think your H also expected you to just walk away and allow "soulmates" to fully pursue their "deep feelings" for one another...
When you CHALLENGED, and the WAY you challenged, it disarmed him and he had little choice there... look like an ass in public by walking out on a wife who wants to work on a marriage or run damage control and go underground...
That's why forgiveness is so disarming... it makes the WS look like a complete ass when the spouse publically forgives the affair and invites their spouse to work on the marriage...
He can either hide the affair, end the affair, or just keep cheating on public and swallow the cold stares from everyone... There aren't many men who enjoy being the town deadbeat...
