I like the theft/vandalism thing. Hmmm, maybe something for me to lobby for.
Saffie is right, though, Allen. OW and H WERE exposing. He took her around to his friends, introduced her, took her to our restaurants where the bartenders/waitresses know us. It was/is embarrassing. He told our best man they were going to marry and I'm crazy, told him to tell the other man in the group, and the bartenders where we've been going for 15 years on Thursdays after his karate class know - even to our favorite restaurants.
Yup, but he was exposing as if his marriage didn't exist or was over... he was so drunk with his addiction he made a public fool of himself.
When YOU exposed him in an ADULT context with more details and showed the reality of it he didn't shrug that off.. he was outraged... If the exposure didn't matter he would have laughed it off... he didn't laugh it off... he ran damage control instead... and he isn't bragging about it and parading all over town now is he?
You honestly think YOU exposing the way YOU did didn't have anything to do with his going underground?
I think you exposing shamed him into the underground and shook the hell outa the affair... I didn't expect the exposure to END the affair, it rarely does ... the exposure is a hard hit to the affair's foundation if done well... It won't end the affair on its own, but it does do damage to it...
