And James, to clarify. I discovered DB a year into my situation. I didn't WAIT a year to join. Prior to joining DB I was very active in an online forum called Relationship Rescue however the approach was not right for me after being there for one year. I also have been in a "real life" divorce support group for 25 months. You really should not post things unless you have all the information that have nothing to do with your situation.
So once again you are saying things that are NOT correct.
But you are correct... it was VERY stupid of me to have ANY R talk with my H one year later.
For somebody that has read through ALL my posts you sure have glossed over quite a bit.
