"Truth be told, I think you may get a kick out of the drama that is your life...Why do I say that? Look back over the past few pages and all you harp about is making love with your wife and how passionate it was and you were in love and you were a God-send etc...
What you fail to realize is IT DOESN'T MATTER to her in the frame of mind she is in...
Hell if you were my husband I would call the police on you...
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The choice is to go dark, if she wanted you around she would make it easy for you and hard for anyone who wants to "triangulate" the situation.