DCB, remember, you've only been on this path for a couple weeks. There are probably things both you and her have to do so your M can be a happy place for both of you.
Keep evaluating. Take the pain that you feel and vent it somewhere. I'm not saying don't let her know you're hurting, just be careful not to be Mt. St. Helens~
Maybe by July she'll bring you, too. Was she going to leave the kids with you, too?
