I still maintain that OP should face criminal charges for attacking a family like this... if Pass' OW in her situation simply broke into her home, spraypainted her wall, and took a used stereo OW would be behind bars... compare the emotional damage the OW's preying on Pass' home using infidelity rather than burglary... It pales in comparison...
Vandalism and petty theft are easily resolved compared to the damage an affair does... But for some ridiculous reason the theft and vandalism is illegal but infidelity isn't criminal by law.
