Allen you are right..we agree on most things...the real losers are these b****** OW/OM eventaully who must get their day for casuing so much unhappiness and pain in families especially where children are involved.Its not fair that one human being cam cause so much pain to others...I start counselling tomorrow..bit of a quack myself!!! but I know the pain like you guys..hellish.


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith