Allen you are right..we agree on most things...the real losers are these b****** OW/OM eventaully who must get their day for casuing so much unhappiness and pain in families especially where children are involved.Its not fair that one human being cam cause so much pain to others...I start counselling tomorrow..bit of a quack myself!!! but I know the pain like you guys..hellish.
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith