Pandora, there is NO WAY 80% of MLCer's come back. As Snodderly pointed out, this board does represent a small sampling of all total MLCer's, but with that being said, I do believe that enough people post on here to have some pretty reliable data and stats. Based on what I have seen on here over the last 4 years, I would say about 5% return or restore the marriage. I feel that number is very generous.