Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

why expect different from CG, because she's a girl?
if so, that's a bit of a double standard and that suggests more work in that respect - she's just as good if not better than PDT or myself, her advice just as valid and she provides insight from a female perspective, something PDT, Steve, Gucci, myself and any other male user on this site can't provide.

And you are still working the angle of whether or not your wife will ever trust you again although she had the affair and you still don't get it, you are still proving yourself to someone who cheated on you, what's wrong with you? Why do you have that mindset?

no it's not because she's a girl lol. Heck out of my parents my mother is the sterner blunter person. My father is more laid back. She's like that with me and my sister and everyone else.

You see if you guys have already been here and made the same mistakes and I don't get it? Then explain that. That you don't want me to get hurt you already been down that road. I'll have to go back and read each sitch. It's hard to listen when you yourself feel like you have been wrong and want to make ammends. That's I guilty I felt when she expressed things she felt I did.

So I wanted to show her something different. She stated I was changing and things like that and then the 4 days nc and then the I hate you stuff.