Moving on with my life #2

[Startingover2]

Curious, Why were you still available after he told you he wasn't coming and acted as if his ambiguous message was clear? Why not call him on missing yet another appointment or merely making a note of it? I mean, at some level does he even know this does NOT help him look good in anyone's eyes but his own?

Why must YOU be there when he visits? Can't he take a friend or trusted family member with him for his visits? Why is it YOUR responsibility to supervise him when the court ordered that his visits be supervised?

Thanks for response.
I made sure of my last text because I wanted to make sure I was clear that 'no, exh...obviously I do NOT have plans like you assumed or manipulated." I thought about just leaving it at that, but he would just say I agreed.

The court put that the visits are supervised by me. I would actually rather have it that way and just have to suck up the rest. I know exh. I know the look he gets when he is drinking or taking pills...the look he gets that only I can see sometimes. No way in he** would I ever allow any member of his family of gypsies to supervise or even one of his friends. I just wouldn't trust what they would say or do.

The pattern is flowing. If history holds true and exh is just like his father and brother, who by exh's age was at the same stage he is now, than it will only go downhill from here. His father died at 42 of a drug overdose and his brother turned to worse and worse drugs and lost his family, job, everything (he is now sober though). The only reason exh still has a job and isn't living on the streets is because of his exfil that keeps enabling him.