No, Allen, OW doesn't have children... she's just a barfly, probably going through something very similar to what he's going through. She's 43 and never had children, they were going to wait until H's children turned 18 in two years for her to move in to my position as W b/c she doesn't want anything to do with kids .
Right, I had in my head that the OW had two young kids... I think I have so many OP's households in my head right now I can't keep track of it all... its like watching a dozen soap operas daily lol
The point is the same though, your H isn't showing any remorse for attacking another household, children or no children... It's a horrible act of subterfuge, but your H doesn't seem to care in the slightest.
I dunno... I would get as much INTEL as I could and if I found anything solid I would expose to his kids.. I think your stepkids are old enough to be in the loop... assuming they havent' figured things out on their own...
When Phil McGraw did an affair intervention last fall on his show he has the whole family on the show, not just the Husband and the Wife... there were two adult daughters (20 and 22 I think), and 18 yo daughter and a 14 yo daughter all there to sit in...
I would say Phil McGraw though is also a hardliner... he doesn't pull punches if an addiction is involved.. he grew up with an alcoholic father and he's quite aggressive about addictions and infidelity...
