I disagree, it could be a MLC and only Pass will know the answer to that.Whatever is going on, his brain is mush..totally.You are not reasoning with a sane man.

I agree that the approach with an A is generally the same but the impact could be different if her H was in a MLC.
Her H has completely lost the plot and I have to agree with Puppy these A are more dangerous than any additiction..supported by OW who are masters of their Art.
Pass it doesnt change the key messages, you are a smart cookie, you know the answers.I keep mentioning Saffie.She has had a positive outcome which most, if not all of us only hope and pray we get some day.
Look after you, GAL, detach and become the woman you once were before this H of yours started his carry on.We can continue to write screeds, this is what is important for YOU....


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith